“You never know how strong you are until being strong is your only option.”
Stop Waiting for Permission. Start Building the Life You Deserve.
You're driven, competitive, and full of untapped potential—but you feel stuck following someone else's playbook. I'm Pat Miller, and I help ambitious women who weren't handed the roadmap turn their underdog status into their greatest advantage through my Growing with the Underdog framework.
Ready to stop playing small?
I help you discover how to use self-awareness, strategy, and scrappy resilience to build a business and life that actually fits.
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Entreprenuer, Business Owner, Women in Construction, Author, Motivational Speaker, Host, Podcaster, Karma Ass Kicker and Proud Underdog.
Underdog to Empire
You've been overlooked. Underestimated. Counted out before you even got started. You're tired of proving yourself to rooms that weren't built for you, and somewhere in the back of your mind, you know you could build something better on your own. If you've ever felt like the Underdog and are ready to start your own business on your terms, this is your playbook.
Pat Miller knows exactly how that feels. She went from hauling produce on her dad's farmstand in rural New Jersey to building a multi-million-dollar commercial construction company; one of the few women at the top of an industry built by and for men. After losing her husband and business partner, she rebuilt from scratch with nothing but grit, resourcefulness, and a refusal to stay down. Now, in her no-nonsense, say-it-like-it-is style, she's handing you the same blueprint that took her from Underdog to Top Dog. And she's not sugarcoating a damn thing.
Inside, you'll learn how to:
- Turn being underestimated into your greatest competitive edge
- Build a reputation so strong they stop shopping around and just call you first
- Start lean, move fast, and win work before you feel "ready"
- Get back up after the kind of hit that makes most people quit
- Stay hungry, humble, and true to yourself — even after you've made it
Every lesson in this book came from the real world. Pat lived it, built it, and is handing it straight to you - because the next Underdog success story we read should be yours.
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Kicking Karma’s Ass: Unbelievable Stories of Strength, Resilience and Perseverance, All Told with a Twist of Humor
As an entrepreneur, woman in construction, mother and wife, Miller’s life has always been full – and full of surprises. But several years ago, those surprises became almost unbearable. Within the space three years, she lost both her parents, her brother and the love of her life – her husband and business partner, Ray. And, in the process of caring for them all, she also almost lost her business, too. It was the impetus to write her book which recounts her “phoenixing up” and out of grief to rebuild her life both personally and professionally. Told with gritty wit and even grittier wisdom, Miller offers up stories from her life that are funny, sad, charming, heartbreaking – and always real. It is an inspirational tale of pulling up your boots – in this case, a steel-toed, designer pair – and getting on with life.
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About
Pat Miller is a powerhouse entrepreneur, best-selling author and top-rated podcast host who has spent her career shattering glass ceilings in commercial construction and building an empire from the ground up. Known for her infectious energy and razor-sharp business acumen, Pat demystifies the path to success, proving that you don’t need a traditional pedigree to leave a lasting legacy.
Everybody Loves Pat!
“I respect what Pat is building. Her podcast is more than a show, it’s a meaningful platform for powerful conversations, and I’m honored to have been a part of it.”
Jane Bond
Identity Strategist and Creator of Unpack Your Life Podcast
“I was truly honored to share my thoughts and experiences with Pat’s audience. Her thoughtful questions and the overall atmosphere she creates on her show made the experience enjoyable and meaningful. I appreciate the platform Pat’s built and the chance to connect with her listeners.”
Sarah Walton
Business & Wealth Coach
“While exploring the construction field and looking to connect with industry professionals in NJ, I came across Patricia Miller’s [LinkedIn] profile. Pat immediately extended a warm welcome when I reached out to her, and I am grateful for her hospitality. After learning that Pat wrote a book called Kicking Karma’s Ass, I was intrigued to read it and learn more about her journey and what made her so successful. In the book, Pat shares stories of her upbringing and how she gained business skills early on. She also talks about the heartbreak of losing several family members in a short period. The losses were devastating. The resilience she exhibited during those tough times is truly inspiring. Pat’s ability to persevere, maintain a positive outlook through life’s challenges, and to continue to run a commercial construction company by herself is incredible!”
Evelyn Davila
Project Management Professional
“It’s important to share stories that empower women, to give hope to those who just can’t seem to see the silver lining in every cloud… This book will take you through Pat’s journey of overcoming obstacles that would be best categorized as climbing Mount Everest, barefoot. No matter what life threw her way, she made a conscious decision to win. Pat overcomes chaos with a smile and definitely with a good pair of boots because no one knows how to kick karma’s ass like she does.”
Ingrid Baird
Lieutenant, Hudson County Sheriff’s Office and Crisis Team Negotiator for the Hudson County SWAT Team
“Pat’s story reminds us that there are no accidents or coincidences. The universe has a way of sending us messages and helping to lift us out of some of our darkest times. I’m so blown away and inspired by her resilience, perseverance and courage to keep moving forward. If you are going through a challenging time and looking for inspiration, I guarantee Pat and her book will help you find the energy to push forward.”
Ronald S. Marvo
Host, Great American Underdog Podcast
“You know how they say when certain people speak you, you MUST listen and listen intently. Once again, Pat is one of those people. She has an energy and an aura that’s so rare. I’m blessed to have crossed paths with her. And I know her many clients, vendors and employees all feel the same way. It’s the key to her success in business and in life.”
Michelangelo Amantia
"Books possess the unique ability to stir a wide range of emotions and encourage us to reflect on our own lives and relationships. This book, in particular, had a profound impact on me, leading me to contemplate themes such as preparing for the unexpected, coping with personal loss, and navigating the complexities of human relationships. These themes are universally relatable, and it's fascinating how the book's portrayal of them prompted introspection and encouraged me to cherish and invest in my own relationships with loved ones.”